Optimum Woman

ALONE WE DO SO LITTLE, TOGETHER WE CAN DO SO MUCH… Helen Kellor

This programme is based on 12 simple logical and spiritual steps, five logical formats  and one ancient technique, which encourages your own unique IQ levels. These concepts are designed to bring out the best in you. While we provide a guide for structure, most of your learning will be from our experiences as trainers, therapists, mothers, partners and above all women. However you will also receive ongoing support if needed.

You can read all the books in the world, listen to CDs and go on workshops but never find the answers. You can travel the world seeking enlightenment and never be transformed. If the right buttons are never pressed, then you are wasting time and energy seeking and often craving. You will learn something, but nothing that will work, unless you experience some form of transformation, of total awareness and understanding of your purpose.

LIGHT BULB EXPERIENCES

You’ve come to this site and are reading this because you are well ahead of your time. You always were! You were the child who stood out from the others, the teenager who felt different inside. The young adult who took more risks and the older person who knew there was more to life. For you there will be times where you will have ‘light bulb’ experiences, where everything seems to make sense. There will be times when you remember old information, instructions and ideas that you will want to implement, because they seem so natural and easy.

Everything will seem transparent, effortless and joyful.

You will find yourself remembering, how as a child, you sort of knew more than you do now. I was 7 years old when I knew there was a higher power, far greater than us, because I’d glimpsed the energy. From that day I understood, and everything became easier. I learnt how to avoid and disperse negative energy through thought and actions, and I share these experiences with you as we work together.

HOW MANY HAPPY PEOPLE DOES IT TAKE TO CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT?

“If you cannot feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” (Mother Teresa). If you enable just one person in your life you have mastered the art of giving and receiving professionally. More than one in a lifetime and you’ve mastered the art of giving ethically in a way you may not have considered before. To achieve easy learning in all areas of life, we have deliberately kept this guide easy to comprehend and understand. Easy reads are better absorbed than a book or manual full of technical or psychological jargon that needs constant concentration and rereading to digest fully. There’s no fun it that!

This course is divided between practical, logical and spiritual

This course is not about logical verses spiritual, because both can work brilliantly together! So the first part will be the nuts and bolts and this will be in the morning, mainly because the HOW TO’ achieve in the quickest and most profitable time is a requirement by many companies and oneself. The afternoon is about the real you, because without the authentic part of you developing, working congruently will be nigh on impossible. When you cannot believe in yourself you rarely achieve.

COURSES AND BOOKS THAT TELL A STORY

We prefer to tell a story and answer those important questions. While this programme works within a logical and spiritual framework, we will be starting from the very basics to a higher level of personal awareness. This compact guide can be carried in your briefcase or bag and is perfect for the times when you have a moment or two to spare. Formatted in small chunks so you can open at any page and understand the content.  

We have an ambition to optimize women’s lives in all areas.

So regardless of your shape, size, age, intellect, culture or nationality we want to help you to advance in all areas of your life and not just at work, but at home as well. Motivated confident women bring untold skills into the workplace and never more so when the balance and dynamics of home and working life are congruent. Because home and work are emotionally and intrinsically linked for women, we teach women like you how to balance career and home life elegantly without emotional compromises.

HOME AND WORK CANNOT BE SEPARATED!

Rather than fighting this coexistence we teach women how to reach the right balance. The truth is 21^st century women need more than being able to multi-task. Women need be feel authentic happy, strong and productive in all areas and never more so when working outside of the home. Women are natural achievers however still need to ‘believe to achieve’ so they can ‘combine to have’ what is naturally and rightfully theirs for the taking.

Go Getting is unnatural for women

The intention is to teach women how to continue ‘giving’ which actually is power in a go-getting world. Power rather than force and has always been a predominately female energy and cannot be denied. We have a few women in prisons that adopted the forceful energy, but these are few and far between. The trends of the past decades, has been a masculine go-getting energy (force), which is totally alien for women and causes too much emotional conflict. Unless women speak and stand up with courage there will be more force and less power.

BETTER COPING STRATEGIES

We want you to have new and better coping strategies, skills, knowledge and rewarding memories, because we know positive memories have a long lasting effect, not just on you but on others. Like a pebble thrown into a lake the ripples continue long after. We want you to be the ONE that makes a difference in other people’s lives because you are knowledgeable, skilled, bold and fearless.                       

A company who values workingwomen is years ahead of their competitors

These companies will rarely need recruitment drives. As with the 18^th and 19^th century Quaker companies who benefited hugely financially, loyally and productively from employing all female staff. If Quakers could recognise a woman’s talents and benefit in all areas, then maybe women can acknowledge their skills in the 21^st century. Women have a great many skills to offer companies. However women need to have better strategies to cope in a frenetic world of business and commerce. If anyone can do this - you can!

BUT WHY DO WOMEN WORK OUTSIDE THE HOME?

For necessity, luxuries, and a few women for sanity and a minority work in both jobs (home and work) because they are passionate about their outside job. Whether a woman works inside or outside the home, life is certainly getting tougher for women to be ‘everything to everyone.’ Well we don’t believe in superwoman status, neither do we believe you have to compromise your life to achieve. Trying to be the superwoman has serious consequences.

We have gone too far down the line to stop women working altogether

Anyway why would we? No matter what policy makers say, most women want or need to work and the past has proved that women are valuable contributors to society. Anyway not working would be counterproductive, as women have fought to be recognised in the workplace and work longer and harder for companies. Women are fiercely loyal and usually accept less, so companies would be foolish to refuse women and they know that. Based on this need or preference for the workingwomen, there must be a level of balance where the environment is more conducive to fulfillment, passion, value and respect.

WHY THE NAME OPTIMUM WOMAN

There was absolutely had no choice. At a brief moment in time, when the mind was free from chaos the name ‘Woman’ erupted with the strength of attitude and wholesomeness that couldn’t be denied. When the name was researched, ‘woman’ signified appreciation, flexibility, inner strength, fairness, caring, beauty and unconditional love. Once clarified, the next stage was finding out whether the domain name was free, if so then Optimum Woman was meant to be! And of course the name was!

When things naturally fall into place you know you’re on the right path.

Prefixing ‘Optimum’ gave an edge of uniqueness, transparency and branding. Since 1995 I have been running Optimum Healing, a thriving psychological and healing practice, plus training for Reiki and Seichem a hands on system that has become popular amongst the lay person and the medical profession. Even though these are run separately continuity seemed a natural progression.

WHY TRAINING FOR WOMEN

Sylvia has observed how the dynamics change and concentration is disturbed considerably when men walk into a training room. Re-establishing focus and settling back to work takes time. This works in reverse as well. An all female environment tends to bring out the very best in women, both in a natural and dynamic way. Confidence, self-esteem, memory and concentration all improve and grow within this safe environment. While co-learning has the advantages of being politically acceptable, having all female training and women sharing together has a delightful way of encouraging women to be natural, fearless, curious, and enthusiastic. In short, being themselves without pressures to achieve higher. No one learns under pressure in fact 50% of memory and concentration is lost when fearful and stressed.

Iris Haberli said quite beautifully

“Each person grows not only by her own talents and development of her own inner beliefs, but also by what she receives from the people around her.”